The Westminster Confession of Faith (hereafter WCF) is a grand confession of the Reformed faith regarding the revelation of God’s truth in Holy Scripture.
Nevertheless, it seriously errs with regard to its permission of remarriage after divorce while the original mate is still living. Therefore, it necessarily errs seriously regarding its doctrine of marriage. It denies that marriage is a life-long bond.
The specific errors are mainly two. The first is the permission of remarriage for the husband or wife whose mate is guilty of adultery — the so-called “innocent party”. The WCF grants this permission in Chapter 24, section 5 (24.5):
Adultery or fornication committed after a contract, being detected before marriage, giveth just occasion to the innocent party to dissolve that contract. In the case of adultery after marriage, it is lawful for the innocent party to sue out a divorce, and, after the divorce, to marry another, as if the offending party were dead.
Contrary to Westminster’s permission of remarriage, Scripture clearly condemns all remarriage while an original mate is still living, including remarriage after divorce on the ground of fornication. Scriptural passages include Matthew 5:31, 32; Matthew 19:3-12; Mark 10:2-12, especially verses 11, 12; Luke 16:18; Romans 7:2, 3; and 1 Corinthians 7, especially verses 10, 11, and 39.
In Matthew 19:9, Jesus permits divorce in the case of marital infidelity. He does really permit divorce in this case. Churches and ministers may not counsel the aggrieved wife, or husband, as the case may be, that she is unspiritual if she divorces her adulterous husband, or that her Christian calling demands taking the adulterer back. Divorce is permitted. It is permitted as a legitimate Christian act in view of the adultery of one’s mate. So serious a sin is the fornication of a married person. The offended party may take back the now penitent fornicator. She is not required to do so. Divorce is permitted on the ground of fornication. But all remarriage after divorce, including divorce on the ground of fornication, is condemned as adultery.
Defense of Westminster’s permission of remarriage after divorce on the ground of the adultery of one’s mate appeals to Matthew 19:9, the one text in Scripture that might be explained as permitting remarriage. In fact, this defense appeals, not to the entire text, but only to the first part of Matthew 19:9. The argument is that in the first part of Matthew 19:9 Jesus gives permission, not only to divorce, but also to remarry. The second part of the text, however, makes plain that the exception clause (“except it be for fornication”) applies only to the permission of divorce, not to a subsequent remarriage. It allows a man or a woman to divorce; it does not allow a subsequent remarriage. For, with reference to the woman who was unjustly divorced and whose husband has subsequently remarried — the so-called “innocent party”, the second part of Matthew 19:9 teaches that whoever marries her commits adultery: “whoso marrieth her which is put away doth commit adultery”. The “innocent party” may not remarry!
If any doubt remains whether Matthew 19:9 forbids the remarriage of the “innocent party”, contrary to the WCF, 1 Corinthians 7 settles the matter beyond any shadow of doubt. Verse 10 of 1 Corinthians 7 forbids a wife to depart from (divorce) her husband. Verse 11 goes on to permit a wife to depart, as the one exception to the rule of verse 10. This exception can only be that allowed by Jesus in Matthew 19:9: “except it be for fornication”. The apostle is teaching the marriage doctrine of Jesus in Matthew 19. There is one biblical ground for divorce. But even in this case, a divorced wife (and, by implication, husband) has two options, and two only: “remain unmarried, or be reconciled to her husband”. Remarriage to another is not an option. Remarriage to another is forbidden. The implication is that in Matthew 19:9, upon which text Paul is drawing in 1 Corinthians 7:10, 11, Jesus allows for divorce on the ground of infidelity. He is not allowing for remarriage. The exception clause in Matthew 19:9 applies only to the prohibition of divorce.
1 Corinthians 7 also explains why all remarriage after divorce, (the original mate still living), is forbidden. It does so in verse 39: “The wife is bound by the law as long as her husband liveth; but if her husband be dead, she is at liberty to be married to whom she will; only in the Lord”. Marriage is a bond for life. Only death dissolves the bond. God forms the bond. Only God can, and only God may, dissolve it. Even for God, dissolving the bond takes some doing: death.
1 Corinthians 7:39 points out the fundamental error concerning marriage that underlies the false doctrine of the Westminster divines regarding marriage, divorce, and remarriage. WCF, 24.5 calls marriage a “contract”. Contracts can be broken by the contracting parties. But marriage is not a contract. It is a bond, according to 1 Corinthians 7:39: “the wife is bound…” The one who forms the bond is God. Only God can, and only God may, dissolve the bond. He does this by means of the death of one of the two who are bound in marriage.
Significantly, the Westminster divines felt the error of their doctrine of remarriage, in light of 1 Corinthians 7:39. They showed this by their foolish statement at the conclusion of 24.5: “marry another, as if the offending party were dead (emphasis added)”. The statement indicates that they were well aware that 1 Corinthians 7:39 limits remarriage to one whose mate has died. The statement indicates also that they were aware that they were teaching the permissibility of remarriage in contradiction of 1 Corinthians 7:39. Therefore, they proposed viewing the divorced, but surviving and, very much living mate as dead.
A divorced man whose body is not in the grave is not dead according to the stipulation of 1 Corinthians 7:39, but alive. He may not, indeed cannot, be viewed as dead. To view him so is not only in deliberate opposition to 1 Corinthians 7:39, but also a deliberate nonsense. By “dead” in the text, the apostle refers to a man whose earthly life has ended, actually ended. He is not dead because his wife has decided to view him as dead. But she views him as dead because he is dead.
By its concluding clause in WCF, 24.5, “as if the offending part were dead”, the Westminster divines shouted to the world that they knew that their doctrine of remarriage contradicts, deliberately contradicts, the authoritative marriage doctrine of the apostle in 1 Corinthians 7:39.
Scripture teaches marriage as a life-long bond, or union. Adultery can strain the bond to the extent that a full, legal divorce is permissible, although even in this case reconciliation is possible. But even adultery cannot dissolve the bond so that another bond is permissible, while the adulterous mate is still alive.
Two other considerations bear on this matter. The first is that the permissibility of the remarriage of the “innocent party” in a divorce entails the permissibility of the remarriage of the “guilty party” as well. The remarriage of the “innocent party” obviously implies that the original marriage has been dissolved. Otherwise the “innocent party” may not marry another. But if the original marriage has been dissolved for the one, it has, in the nature of the case, been dissolved as well for the other. Since his original marriage has been dissolved (according to the thinking of the advocates of the right of the “innocent party” to remarry), the “guilty party” also may now marry another.
In fact, the absurd implication of the notion that sexual unfaithfulness breaks the “contract” of marriage is that all one needs to do in order to dissolve his marriage is that he fornicate with one who is not his wife or that she fornicate with one who is not her husband. Lo, the mere act of illicit sex puts asunder what God hath joined together.
The second consideration is that the faulty doctrine of divorce and remarriage in the WCF, which is apparently held and practiced by many Reformed churches and theologians as well, results in, or approves, an epidemic of divorces and remarriages today. Divorce and remarriage were rare at the time of the Westminster Assembly. Society frowned on divorce and remarriage. The assembly was not motivated by concern for the preservation of the institution as ought to be the case today. Today, a godless society attacks marriage. Divorce and remarriage in evangelical and Reformed churches in the West occur nearly at the rate at which they occur in the world. This is a disgrace. It is destructionve of the Christian home and family. It shames Jesus Christ.
Yet, hardly any church and scarcely any theologian raise their voice to address this disgrace. Rather, churches and theologians exert themselves to justify the disgrace, with vociferous appeal to the WCF. Why? No one subjects WCF, 24.5 to critique. Why not?
(Next time, I offer a critique of the second main error of the WCF concerning divorce and remarriage. I refer to its statement in WCF, 24.6: “nothing but…such wilful desertion as can no way be remedied by the church or civil magistrate is cause sufficient of dissolving the bond of marriage.”)
Written by: Prof. David J. Engelsma | Issue 58